Wednesday, December 23, 2015

Skipping the Hoopla

“Did you spend your Christmas money yet?” I asked my 14-year-old grandson.

“No, Nana,” Kodey answered. “I don’t really need anything. It would really be okay with me if I didn’t get anything for Christmas. It’s just nice to have time off and to spend it with the family.”

Wow! I haven’t heard that kind of insight from too many adults, let alone a teenager. It’s a wonderful sentiment—one I wish we could all adopt, without feeling “guilt-ed” into buying, buying, buying.

It seems God wanted to drive the point home with me. A couple days later, a customer came into the store where I work and bought a few little decorations. I asked, “Finishing up your holiday shopping?”

“No, I don’t buy Christmas gifts. As children our father taught us that Christmas is Jesus’ birthday, not ours, so we didn’t receive gifts. Our family just focused on celebrating Christ’s birth.”

Though I doubt it is a very popular one, her father’s outlook on the holiday certainly gave me food for thought, especially following on the heels of Kodey’s comment. What would Christmas be like without all the hoopla surrounding gift giving?

Store owners would shudder. Most children, and many adults, would certainly whine and squawk. And yet, perhaps less emphasis on “gifting” would free us to truly recognize and receive the greatest gift all of us have been given—God’s gift of salvation through the birth, life, and death of Jesus.

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Dick and I always limited our gifts to three, (in remembrance of the three gifts Jesus received at His birth) but never tried a gift-less Christmas. I don’t think I could really go through with it. Have you ever tried a Christmas without gifts? How did it go? Do you know a family who doesn’t exchange gifts? How do they celebrate Christ’s birth?

Christmas Blessings!

©2015 Pamela D. Williams


  1. I don't think I'm quite ready to embrace the giftless Christmas idea yet. Although I know what the true meaning of Christmas is all about. I suppose it all boils down to what we have grown accustomed.

    1. No, I couldn't go giftless yet either, Wanda, but I am going to simplify and focus. Thanks for stopping by!

  2. Gulp. I've come close to going gift less, but have never quite pulled it off and now I'm fairly certain that I go occasionally overboard with my family. It doesn't change the idea behind it for me, but I completely get the discipline behind it. Merry Christmas!

    1. I understand completely about family, Floyd. Merry Christmas to you, too!

  3. Hi Pam! First of all, can I just say how tickled I am to meet another "Nana"? LOVE that!!
    No, I have never gone without a gift on Christmas, or not given any. I understand the idea though. Your grandson is wise beyond his age, I would never expect to hear that from a 14 year old.
    I hope you enjoyed your celebrations with family and friends. So much to be thankful for, and to Christ for, I know that. God bless you and yours.

    1. Yes, Kodey is a very wise young man. He gives me much to think about.